The Ritual that Makes You Fall In Love With Yourself

this is a part of one of my weekly “Self Love Sundays” on Substack

🕯️ Ritual

  • Set aside 30 minutes (or longer, if you prefer) & make sure you are undisturbed during this time

  • Light up a candle, play some music that makes you feel loved & connected. Place your hands on your heart. Take a deep breath into this sacred space & let it fill with anything that doesn‘t belong here and with a deep sigh, let it allll go.

  • Take out a pen and paper & write a love letter, not to „someone else“ but to yourself — instead of „another“ specific person, to yourself as your specific person. Write down all the ways that you would admire & compliment someone you are in love with but now the one is you. Don‘t hold yourself back — write as if you‘re your biggest fan, and your best lover (ssht, deep down you are, we are now just awaken them, so that you can remember).

  • Sit in front of a mirror, look yourself deeply in the eyes (and see God, not a “person” looking back to you through these very eyes). If you feel discomfort or resistance, please be aware that this is your body expressing somatically old conditioning & as loving awareness breathe through them without analyzing. Instead of cuddling these feelings, cuddle your body. Read this letter to yourself while placing one hand on your heart & feel these words, feel them as your truth. If any emotions come up, just allow them and bring your attention back to your heart — you are safe, held and loved.

  • Finish with a big hug and tap yourself on your shoulders. Tell yourself that you‘re proud of yourself & truly mean it. How many times did you said this to „someone else“ but yourself?

Thank you for your willingness and openness!


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